Resources
The resources below include all of the supplemental materials I’ve created to help you implement the practices in Having It All. These tools are designed to help you collect data on your life, time use, and priorities so you can efficiently reallocate your scarce time and resources into activities that better serve you!
Free Resources
Free Resources
Time Tracker: Partner Version
If you think you might need to rebalance the household load, this tracker gives you data to start the conversation. Track your time with your partner for one week to assess the balance of housework, childcare, leisure, and work in your relationship. The graphs will give you a breakdown of which tasks might be invisible to one partner, and what might need to shift. More information on how to use and get the most out of the time tracker is in Chapter 8 of Having It All!
Time Tracker: Individual Version
If you're trying to dedicate more time to activities that bring you joy and meaning, this tracker lets you your own time over a month to distinguish between high-value work, leisure, household, and kid time, and time that leaves us feeling depleted or disappointed. The graphs at the end will let you visualize how your time evolves over a month as you experiment with shifting the balance among different activities. More information on how to use and get the most out of the time tracker is in Chapter 8 of Having It All!
More resources coming soon!
The Having It All Workbook
Free with book purchases or for teaching
The Having It All Workbook is filled with exercises, reflections, and practical tools to help you put the book’s insights into action—plus a book club discussion guide to spark meaningful conversations. Inside, you’ll find guided activities to deepen your understanding, prompts to uncover fresh perspectives, and space to track your growth along the way. Whether you’re working independently or with others, this workbook will help you maximize the value of what you’ve learned, identify and optimize your unique utility function, and navigate the challenges and constraints you face with confidence and clarity.